Raiding Review by Amorres Perres.

Note from Amoriana: I mentioned on my Facebook page that we’d be bringing in Amorres to provide a male perspective on the same book that I’d talked about in the previous post. So ladies, here’s what a guy thinks of that exact same book. And guys, you might by the end of this post decide that you would like to read it too.

The first time I saw this book was in my sister’s hands. It was just a glance and thought nothing much of it. A few days later, I needed to take a crap. I love to enjoy my crap as though one is having a nice dinner. My crap usually involves a reading material, preferably a good one. So, under great bowel pressure, I grabbed whatever I could from the bookshelf before entering the toilet and it turned out to be ‘Why Men Love Bitches’ by Sherry Argov.

I read and washed up and continue reading the book in my room till the end. Instantly I sent out a text to my best friend to read the book. It is a simple explanation of why some girls are unknowingly abused and mistreated (doormat) by their partners and not receiving the same affection they did during the wooing and honeymoon stages.

Men, whether we like to admit it or not, have the understanding that women are the weaker sex. I have been surrounded by many girl friends that have helped to enhance the men’s perspective to that. Many times I said, ‘Hey get out of it, do not show him you’re at his mercy! Make him work to get you back’ and usually they’d vehemently nod in agreement before asking me ‘Do you think he’ll come back?’ – Ah, what can I say?

This book will explain that you’re being too nice! Being a bitch does not mean you go around snatching other girl’s boyfriends. I’d prefer to see it that you don’t care if someone steals your boyfriend. Your presence and significance (dream girl) has to have an impact on the men.

This book suggests to you the steps you can take to increase your presence in the relationship and ideas to bring him out of his comfort zone. Instead of wallowing in self-pity and trying to talk to men about possible problems who’d probably just brush it off, you have to speak through actions. He will listen. The book will show you.

Ultimately, it is about self-empowerment and gaining the ability to keep men interested in you as he was from the first day. I strongly encourage you girls to read the book and here is my favourite quote off the book:

‘If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he’ll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he’ll also take time to appreciate who she is’.

Power up, girls.
Amorres Perres